We're in California for a few more days, continues...
Yesterday we drove into San Francisco again.
This time, John was going to the Web 2.0 Expo and then a business lunch meeting. I had lunch scheduled with my friend Christian who was visiting San Francisco with his son Devon.
Since John went to the Expo at 10, I had a couple hours to kill before my lunch at 12. So I shopped. Yea, shopped. Shreek.
I started at Bloomingdale's at the Westfield Centre. Bought a black scarf to go with my new $30 coat from Two Star Dog. Yea, last week I got a gorgeous coat on sale for $30. It was an accident. (The clothes at Two Star Dog are not to my taste but their coats are fabulous, I own several of them.) OMG, I just realized the scarf cost more than the coat. You go gurl. '-)
However, other than finding a scarf I wanted within minutes of entering Bloomingdale's, I had a miserable time shopping. OK, here's the thing: when did shopping become an intrusive, mercenary experience? I wandered around Bloomingdale's and into one of the designer departments I like. The saleswoman came running over, literally running. She apologized for not being there sooner (?) and I told her it was not a problem, I had only just arrived at the department. Then she asked me my name and shook my hand. I was appalled and thought it was completely intrusive. You don't need to know my name and get your hands off me. Sheesh!
(This was not my first intrusive experience at Bloomingdale's. I bought a coat there last year and the salewoman was so sycophantic I wanted to slap her into reality.)
I found a sweater I liked and she showed me to the (very nice) changing room. One of the things I love about designer clothes is that sometimes I wear an xsmall. Sometimes even an xxsmall. Hilarious! I am usually a size small, or even a medium depending on the fit. For me to wear an xsmall, one of us is lying and it's not me. LOL!
When she processed my credit card she spent a fair amount of time trying to convince me to open a Bloomingdale's card. Apparently one aspect of this is you get a discount. No thanks. She seemed truly baffled that I didn't want the discount. I explained, no, I don't want yet another credit card, especially from a store that I only shop in once a year, if ever. That seemed to shut her up.
But if only there was a way to shut up all the other salespeople, my shopping morning would not have been so hellish. After Bloomingdale's I went into the mall and was accosted and harassed by vendors and salespeople the entire time I was there. There are carts along the aisles of the mall selling perfume or whatnot and every single vendor pestered me as I walked through the mall. Even when I politely shook my head "no" they continued their harassment to get me to try their product. One guy literally stood in my way. He put out his hand and asked me my name. WTF?! Again? Enough of this already. The whole experience made me realize why I shop online.
(One good thing happened in the mall: I discovered they've opened a Vera Bradley store. Yay! I love Vera Bradley. Most of their stuff is too fussy but I love their microfiber handbags. Simple, elegant and practical; a combination that is not easy to find. The salesgirl was charming (she did not ask me my name) and I told her how excited I am that they opened a store in San Francisco and I'll be popping in to buy their special editions.)
So I finally left the mall because I couldn't stand it anymore. I wanted another black scarf so I thought I'd try Neiman Marcus. Wow, I saw so much plastic surgery that my face hurt just looking at the other customers. The scarf selection was tiny but they had one of the most beautiful scarves I've ever seen. $500. I decided not.
But one difference between Bloomingdale's/the mall and Neiman Marcus I noticed, besides the prices (and the face lifts), was that the salespeople were very discrete. No one accosted me. No one asked me my name. Just the occasional "good morning" and they let me walk around undisturbed. I assume that Neiman Marcus attracts a different kind of customer than Bloomingdale's, who are not going to tolerate the intrusive personal boundary-crossing. I'm going to have to make a decision: deal with the overly-personal, intrusion at Bloomingdale's and commercial harassment at the mall, or shop at Neiman Marcus where I'll end up paying $500 for a scarf. That's not going to happen so I'll have to practice my "get the fuck away from me" glare for the vendors at the mall.
Ok, shopping done, time for lunch. I walked over to E&O Trading Company and had a fabulous lunch with Christian and Devon. Christian is an amazing person, so intelligent and fun, I can't believe I know him. And Devon is adorable, I'm so glad I finally met him. Lunch was yummy. Then I got a text from John, his lunch was finished too, so we rendezvoused and drove home.
It was probably our last San Francisco excursion for this California trip and was a really fun day out and about.






