We're in London, continues...
We woke up this morning to a rainy, grey day so my energy level is pretty low. Of course, this being London, the sun could be shining by 10:00.
Last night John and I went to dinner at our favorite Le Deuxieme which is no longer our favorite restaurant. Sigh. Apparently they have a new chef and although the menu is the same, the preparation of the dishes is not. So when I ordered my all-time favorite crottin de chavignol it was completely different and I was very disappointed. The other dishes appear to be different too. The restaurant is so lovely, and so nearby, that we will probably not give up on it entirely; it just won't be the favorite it has been for years.
Meanwhile John is dealing with a backlash in response to some changes he made to how BookMooch works. Thankfully there are many, many positive reactions but, as usual, there are some really nasty ones.
John and I have been getting nasty email since 1994, when we entered the WWW. What I find completely amazing is that people send us vile emails about our web sites that we provide for free. We don't expect everyone to agree with how we do things all the time. But the fact that complete strangers feel that it's ok to send horrible, evil comments to us about something we provide to the world for free is completely hilarious to me. Ok, not hilarious, disturbing. Ok, both hilarious and disturbing.
You would not believe some of the nasty comments I get on this blog. Am I bothered by the fact that complete strangers hate me? Hmmmm, let me think... No, not at all. We worked incredibly hard to get where we are and live the way we do. You have no idea. Well, some of you do because you've known us since we had nothing. I remember very clearly when we had nothing so when I get hate mail criticizing us for the life we live I just delete it. And, no, we don't feel that we can do whatever we want because we're financially successful. Click and delete.
But it's not just the blog. John and I also get hate mail about our web projects. At this point, the only commercial project is Magnatune, although it does not make enough to pay for itself and we support it with our own money. It's doing well, it just needs to do better to meet its expenses.
Our other web sites are totally free including John's BookMooch and my various ongoing web sites. I realize that there is always going to be criticism, which is fine. But there is a difference between polite, constructive criticism and obnoxious hate mail. Why anyone would send hate mail about a web site that is free to use is a mystery to me. Oh right, because they're losers. LOL!
On the other hand, we do get lots of love mail which is very enjoyable. Some of it is so lovely it brings tears to our eyes. That's why I just can't give a shit about the hate mail. It is definitely the exception. I don't respond to hate mail and I don't take any of it seriously, so don't bother sending me any. I'll just click and delete. Works every time. Losers.